if you have a boat--relocate it periodically . if you have any spirit of adventure you will enjoy it.
why be dependent on the imaginary mate you will never find by staying in one place.
you donot effect your alleged dreams, why torture someone else with your fail????
the point of life is to have FUN. if you are curmudgeonly sitting as a hermit in a cave you will never meet anyone, much less a proposed soulmate. get real. shake off your drudge and LIVE
you cannot share fail with anyone, nor will anyone enjoy the thought of living with a curmudgeon who exhibits sad and sorry attitude.
get over it and LIVE.
then ye can find someone when you are happy and able to share that happy.
i have encountered so many males with drudgery and sadness who are allegedly seeking a partner or mate on board.
neither they nor you will find anyone that way. get over yourself and bloom.
and you guys complain about the women who cannot lift
skirt and sail-- try it yourself fist then figger out if you really want to hermit or if you really want to find a partner and go for it.
the ohpoorme attitude is ugly and disgusting and the men who practice it are whiners and foul to watch much less be with. sukitup and grow'
ye cannot be happy with another when you are unhappy with self.