Single Sailors Seeking Soul Mate Group

[Ocean Girl]

Good on ya salty.

[Auspicious]

Originally Posted by Gadagirl

Yeah, you kinda funky too.

Baby wipes will take care of that real quick.

Gada girl and SaltyMonkey have good lists.

I just need someone who will be nice to me. For me that wraps up most of the lists and adds some other behaviors I find attractive.

[flysci]

Originally Posted by SaltyMonkey

I am having a difficult time these days looking for my barbie boat, just like i am a perfect mate.

Hey Salty,

If you find the mate and she already has a boat, that would solve both searches! There is no perfect boat, just as no perfect mate - happiness comes from loving the imperfections, as someone said above.

Margo

[David_Old_Jersey]

Originally Posted by Gadagirl

Name your primary values. Not secondary, but prime values that you would expect from all of your relationships.

Loyalty
Trust

(and the requirements are for both ways - for a keeper ).

Everything else is secondary, albeit with varying degrees of importance - but some of which can be traded against others, especially if not a keeper

[annasails23]

Originally Posted by Gadagirl

Yes John, that is why I pick those values because they grow! Just like a relationship. It's no more a risk than heading out on the great blue sea!!! Just face your fears and decide the amount of risk you are willing to take. Stay on the lake or the bay? Mediocre relationship? Go for the ocean? A stronger more meaningful relationship? It's all your own choice.

With that it seems we've gone full circle so I will offer this about boxes, relationships and the risk of not taking risks....

I love the color pink! Secondary value; must love Dave Mathews!

Gada- we REALLY need to hang out on the water together!

[SaltyMonkey]

Originally Posted by flysci

Hey Salty,

If you find the mate and she already has a boat, that would solve both searches! There is no perfect boat, just as no perfect mate - happiness comes from loving the imperfections, as someone said above.

Margo

oh no! I sail solo for various reasons the most important being driving someone else crazy. Believe me.

Anyone up for a Single Sailor Round The World Rally?

[SaltyMonkey]

Originally Posted by David_Old_Jersey

Loyalty
Trust

(and the requirements are for both ways - for a keeper ).

Everything else is secondary, albeit with varying degrees of importance - but some of which can be traded against others, especially if not a keeper

Good one DOJ - you got it down to two words! simple!

[BubbleHeadMd]

Originally Posted by zeehag

uhoh--being a nurse myself, i cannot guarantee that--we know where to get the most damage done with least amount of difficulty........LOL...

I can attest to this.

The nurse who removed my catheter after surgery pulled it out as if she was pull-starting an outboard motor.

[Feral Cement]

Originally Posted by SaltyMonkey

Anyone up for a Single Sailor Round The World Rally?

Ever heard of "Around Alone"?

I was at a bar the other day just as they opened, and I bought a round alone.

John

[SaltyMonkey]

Feral Cement - NC must be a very lonely place.

[anjou]

Originally Posted by BubbleHeadMd

I can attest to this.

The nurse who removed my catheter after surgery pulled it out as if she was pull-starting an outboard motor.

I bet you were all fired up and ready to go after that.

[SaltyMonkey]

wow! Dig anjou's new profile picture! DOJ is gonna howl and sell his goat when he gets a eye on that

[Feral Cement]

Originally Posted by SaltyMonkey

Feral Cement - NC must be a very lonely place.

Only when I'm alone.

[zeehag]

i could not add to the list so i didnt...the lists all seem to cover the important things--i really donot deal well with folks who lie and have no concern for others. no hypocrites and no smoke and mirrors. i have a boat-- i have my life. i donot need to bring in weirdness and clutter. i would rather sail alone than have to deal with all the drama and bs others have to carry around. if someone cannot be real, why try???

[SaltyMonkey]

Oh and no smokers!