Trying to understand your description... I think you are saying that your cables are crossing twice, once in the pedestal and again after the redirect sheaves under the pedestal on the way to the quadrant.
If I have interpreted correctly then I think there's your problem. Your cables should only cross once, inside the pedestal (or on the way to the quadrant, although this is not typical, but still doable), not twice.
I'm sure there's a diagram out there somewhere, but I haven't searched for it. Will try to draw something up.
Think about it though. Each time your cables cross it changes the direction of pull.
If no cross: cable comes straight down on either side of the sprocket at the top of the pedestal, over the redirect sheaves, and straight back to the quadrant. This results in: turn
wheel stbd, pulls up on port cable, pulls port side of quadrant forward, turns
rudder to stbd, turn
boat to port.
If one cross (in pedestal): cable comes down on either side of the sprocket at the top of the pedestal, crosses, runs over redirect sheaves, straight back to quadrant. This results in: turn
wheel stbd, pulls on port cable which has crossed inside pedestal so that it now pulls forward on the stbd side of the quadrant, turning the rudder to port, turns
boat to stbd.
If two crosses... you are back to the 'no cross' situation because you have cancelled the effect of crossing out.
Apologies if I have misread your explanation and am telling you what you already know.
A bit of extra info... as you probably have already noticed, the redirect sheaves underneath the pedestal can be loosened and swiveled in an
arc so as to point them in the direction you wish the cable to go, thus reducing fleet angle and subsequent wear on the shoulders of the sheave groove. These sheaves should be pointing
outward slightly towards each side of the quadrant. If you have them pointing inwards (as I interpret your description when you say "don't do any better than parallel when crossing to quadrant") then this is incorrect.
Hopefully this is clear enough and helpful. Explaining things in writing is hard for sure. If you have no better replies, and have not figured it out, by the time I go to my boat next I will try and take a picture of my cables to illustrate.
Good luck, and good for you for attempting. Just thinking about contorting myself back under my
cockpit floor to adjust my
steering system gives me cramps!