Single Sailors Seeking Soul Mate Group

[zeehag]

Originally Posted by SaltyMonkey

EEK EEK!

smb-- you are beyooteefull!!!

[amidship]

i am a lesbian looking at meeting others who sail . . or are looking for a partner who want to share a life onboard. .

[flysci]

Originally Posted by amidship

i am a lesbian looking at meeting others who sail . . or are looking for a partner who want to share a life onboard. .

Post your profile on the SSSM forum at Cruisers & Sailing Forums - Single Sailors Seeking Soul Mates
Let every one know who you are and what you want. Good Luck!

Margo

[Yachts66]

Lots of Lesbian sailors in the San Francisco area.

[aegean adrift]

Originally Posted by amidship

i am a lesbian looking at meeting others who sail . . or are looking for a partner who want to share a life onboard. .

Zeehag is working on getting as many of us converted as possible , so your odds may be increasingly good. Though the goods may be increasingly odd.

[zeehag]

Originally Posted by aegean adrift

Zeehag is working on getting as many of us converted as possible , so your odds may be increasingly good. Though the goods may be increasingly odd.

sugah--i am so hetero is unbelievable. i only go with boys. but i know of some females who like ladies. i just don know where to find those souls.. i havent known any personally since i let nursing. many are in nursing.

i sail with guys.

[zeehag]

i think we ladies who own boats and are hetero have a problem with men who own boats because the men who own boats dont wanna do work on the ladies' boats--they have their own to work on and dont wanna do ours too-- they dont understand a bf is not a slave nor servant--he is a bf. the lady can hire out easier than have a bf come around to work. lol.

[Yachts66]

Zee I don't like guys and don''t want to sail with guys, the exact opposite of you....so....does that mean I'm a lesbian too?

[zeehag]

thomas--you MUST be...LOL... a male friend of mine calls himself a lesbian.....

[SurferShane]

Originally Posted by zeehag

i think we ladies who own boats and are hetero have a problem with men who own boats because the men who own boats dont wanna do work on the ladies' boats--they have their own to work on and dont wanna do ours too-- they dont understand a bf is not a slave nor servant--he is a bf. the lady can hire out easier than have a bf come around to work. lol.

The real solution as BF/GF is to become a couple and share the one boat?

Problem is that you might need to iron out some of those tensions before making the big commitment. I was previously in a long-term relationship where the partner was domineering and wanted to treat me as a bit of a slave. It just did not work. Regardless, some people do get into these kinds of M/S relationships. For me though I think I am at the stage where I just want to relax with someone pleasant and it would probably be beneficial for them to at least enjoy cruising.

[zeehag]

i think buddy boating is a good start, meself...... after that--- whatever is agreed mutually--is a team.

[SurferShane]

Originally Posted by zeehag

i think buddy boating is a good start, meself...... after that--- whatever is agreed mutually--is a team.

That is obviously a logical step in the right direction that will soon let you know whether you can stand being in a confined space together.

[Yachts66]

Da Surfer said:

...where the partner was domineering and wanted to treat me as a bit of a slave.

Which got me thinking, a slave! Ya' know there might be some advantages to that. No more arguments about whether to go North or South, peace and tranquility, modern slavery, the solution perhaps. I hear there are web sites where folks advertise wanting to be slaves, maybe that's the place to look for crew? Then again if ya' had a slave, you'd not only have to feed 'em, but clothe 'em, then take 'em to the doc and dentist, pay their taxes, all that stuff. I think that's what folks in the South saw would be the end of slavery, it just wasn't economically viable. Sheesh, one good idea after another lost here. What's a lesbian guy to do anyways?

Zee you still headed south in December?

[flysci]

Zee, what's your definition of buddy boating? Leave at the same time, stay in contact, arrive at the same time? Or, 'I'll see you in X when I get there'?

The first to me sounds stressful and difficult, being that different boats/skippers move differently.

[Yachts66]

WOW, i thought it meant you stayed together on the same course at the same speed, far enough apart to not run into each other, but close enough together to say "HI!"

Silly me