Welcome to the forum, AJ.
For some useful reading, check out Nigel Calder's
books.
There are advantages to not taking on a
project boat before you get to sail. A non-project boat is time consuming itself (I'm welding up some new
anchor cleats today), and our local yard is littered with project boats that never made it to the
water. Some have gone through several owners as the first one ran out of
money, got old and died, found the job too big, or
lost interest. This seems particularly true when the owner wasn't a boat pro, as you can imagine. Consider finding a starter that is ready to sail (Ha!) or nearly so, even if it is less boat than you would like to own.
I made it to the
water with my build-it-yourself, but the two year job took twelve years, one of them full time.