Quote: "When doing a "back and fill" to turn a boat in a narrow fairway with any wind/current, 15 seconds between forward thrust and reverse thrust is going to cause you major problems."
You are right again, StuM :-)
I have to fight that battle all the time where I am moored. That doesn't alter the fact that every sailboat
skipper needs to have the basics under control. THEN you can start working on the virtuosity. "Chopsticks" comes before "Für Elise" comes before "The Emperor" :-)
A problem with "speed-shifting" is not so much that the gear won't take it - at least occasionally - as it is that a need to "speed-shift" is quite often evidence that the boat is not under proper control, and that the helmsman is losing his focus. Often, then, things go from bad to worse.
I have no doubt whatever that you are perfectly capable of knowingly going into a situation where speed-shifting will be called for, where, indeed, your ability to do so competently is an arrow in your quiver. I have had to do it now and then, but I hate it!
Normally we manage nicely with MyBeloved on the helm/two lever engine controls, and me calling the con. Takes time, of course, but that's where forehandedness comes in. If I judge that orders will have to happen too rapidly for her to respond without getting rattled, I take the controls, and if speed-shifting should then be called for, I'll only have my own butt to kick :-)
Cheers
TrentePieds