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23-08-2011, 16:25
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Registered User
Join Date: Aug 2011
Location: San Francisco
Boat: 33' Pearson Vanguard
Posts: 2
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Hello from a San Francisco Scaredy Cat
Hello Friends: Hello from San Francisco! I'm relatively new to sailing and am planning to sail with my boyfriend from SF to Cabo and back this November-December. I am terrified. Terrified. Tell me it will be okay.
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23-08-2011, 16:33
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Registered User
Join Date: Mar 2006
Location: Nevada City. CA
Boat: Sceptre 41
Posts: 3,857
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Re: Hello from a San Francisco Scaredy Cat
Welcome aboard. Having done that trip a few times it can be wonderful and or horrible. As long as you have time to pick your weather windows it is a great trip. Here is a link to a great book on the SF to SD part Amazon.com: The Cruising Guide to Central and Southern California: Golden Gate to Ensenada, Mexico, Including the Offshore Islands (0639785801825): Brian Fagan: Books and the books on the Baja part are more limited but I would recommend "The Baja Bash II" "Charlie's charts of Mexico" and there is a very nice platic coated chart that is for sail from Downwind Marine that gives good lat an long positions of the different anchorages.
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Charlie
Between us there was, as I have already said somewhere, the bond of the sea. Besides holding our hearts together through long periods of separation, it had the effect of making us tolerant of each other's yarns -- and even convictions. Heart of Darkness
Joseph Conrad
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23-08-2011, 16:34
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Moderator... short for Cat Wrangler
Join Date: Jul 2009
Location: San Francisco
Boat: Cal 28 Flush Deck
Posts: 5,559
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Re: Hello from a San Francisco Scaredy Cat
It will be ok.
Really!
Keep in mind that your fears don't make it dangerous and that people have been sailing all over the world since forever.
It will be great.
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Sara
ain't what ya do, it's the way that ya do it...
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23-08-2011, 16:42
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Registered User
Join Date: Aug 2010
Location: Central California
Boat: M/V Carquinez Coot
Posts: 3,782
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Re: Hello from a San Francisco Scaredy Cat
Depends on your boyfriend, the boat, and the weather.
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23-08-2011, 16:56
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Registered User
Join Date: Jul 2011
Location: Alameda, CA
Boat: C&C Newport 41
Posts: 586
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Re: Hello from a San Francisco Scaredy Cat
while you may be terrified, the rest of us are jealous!
a friend recently did a weekend sailing class at Treasure Island Sailing Club 3 or 4 hours for both weekend days. it was pretty cheap (like $150). He said it was fun and relaxed and he walked away knowing what he needed to practice and learn and excited for on the water adventures.
sounds like it may be a good fit for you also...
gl.
-steve
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23-08-2011, 16:57
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Registered User
Join Date: Jul 2011
Location: Alameda, CA
Boat: C&C Newport 41
Posts: 586
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Re: Hello from a San Francisco Scaredy Cat
i found it pretty easy on google if u r interested.
Adult
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23-08-2011, 17:04
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Registered User
Join Date: Aug 2007
Location: Clear Lake Marine Services - Seabrook, Texas
Boat: Gulfstar, Mark II Ketch, 43'
Posts: 2,359
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Re: Hello from a San Francisco Scaredy Cat
Welcome Aboard Cruisers Forum
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Formerly Santana
The winds blow true,The skies stay blue,
Everyday is a good day for SAILING!!!!
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23-08-2011, 17:19
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Registered User
Join Date: Jun 2010
Location: Mexico (currently)
Boat: Panda 40 - S/V Cambria
Posts: 573
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Re: Hello from a San Francisco Scaredy Cat
Quote:
Originally Posted by markpierce
Depends on your boyfriend, the boat, and the weather.
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And you - it should be a (fun) adventure, go with that spirit...
Michael
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23-08-2011, 17:24
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Moderator Emeritus
Join Date: Sep 2006
Posts: 4,663
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Re: Hello from a San Francisco Scaredy Cat
More time on a boat is the best cure for nervousness. Time on your boyfriend's boat would be great, but as some have mentioned, taking some classes might be even better. For example, there are some sailing schools on S.F. Bay that will take you out around the Farallones and back -- these conditions are often a little tougher than what you will experience in the bay. Look at OCSC and Modern Sailing School.
And, I hesitate to mention, the way you conquer your nervousness about stressful situations is to go and experience stressful situations. It can be a liberating experience to occasionally step outside your comfort zone.
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23-08-2011, 17:32
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Registered User
Join Date: Aug 2006
Location: Skagit City, WA
Posts: 25,483
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Re: Hello from a San Francisco Scaredy Cat
it should be OK. Just set your expectation low. You might be boarded by the coast guard, you will likely have some huge seas but they should be behind you or really off the stern quarter. Dont let them scare you... it's just how the ocean is at times. Do expect to get tired of the boat moving all directions. Your legs may get real tired of the motion. Do give him a break steering! You both may get cranky from poor sleep and fatigue.... just go with the flow. My first trip I was welcomed just north of cabo at 8 am in the morning by a crowd of breaching humpbacks! Then about 200 porpoises!
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23-08-2011, 17:49
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cat herder, extreme blacksheep
Join Date: Jul 2008
Location: furycame alley , tropics, mexico for now
Boat: 1976 FORMOSA yankee clipper 41
Posts: 18,967
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Re: Hello from a San Francisco Scaredy Cat
Quote:
Originally Posted by Kennau
Hello Friends: Hello from San Francisco! I'm relatively new to sailing and am planning to sail with my boyfriend from SF to Cabo and back this November-December. I am terrified. Terrified. Tell me it will be okay.
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you willdo fine--do you like sailing and small spaces? dolphins and fishes and birds and stars and everything right there with ye? awesomeness of the night right there!!!
is peaceful. absolutely awesome sunsets and sunrises....is an impressive and glorious trip. make sure he reefs sails north of cabo....gets breezy there.
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24-08-2011, 16:40
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Registered User
Join Date: Aug 2011
Location: San Francisco
Boat: 33' Pearson Vanguard
Posts: 2
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Re: Hello from a San Francisco Scaredy Cat
Thanks Friends: The boat: a 33' Pearson Vanguard; the boyfriend: actually a professional sailor / sea captain with tons of bay sailing experience but very little ocean sailing experience (none on our boat!); me: some sailing skills but experience only in the Bay! Your comments are reassuring, though, and I thank you. I plan to keep my eye on the margarita at the end of the journey.
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24-08-2011, 20:27
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cat herder, extreme blacksheep
Join Date: Jul 2008
Location: furycame alley , tropics, mexico for now
Boat: 1976 FORMOSA yankee clipper 41
Posts: 18,967
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Re: Hello from a San Francisco Scaredy Cat
anyone who can sail sf bay can sail ANYWHERE so do not worry you will be fine. pearson vanguard is a good boat. when ye get to mazatlan lets go for tacos and beers...i willbe here i think until may. we see--i want to get to canal but i also want to see what is here and near. first.
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25-08-2011, 00:20
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Registered User
Join Date: Jul 2010
Location: New Mexico, USA
Boat: International Etchells USA 125 Black Magic, Santana 20 475 Ghost, Hobie 33 3100 Bruja, dinghies,
Posts: 1,118
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Re: Hello from a San Francisco Scaredy Cat
Personal opinions: Good boat, good sailor, but it really would be better for your confidence, comfort, and ability to contribute to the voyage for you to get in some good time on the water. The skipper is responsible for orienting you to the boat and to the way life is organized on board a boat, and the less that comes as a surprise, the better for your ability to adapt and thrive. Everyone on the boat should know how to be safe and should understand all the basics of how the boat works. Expectations for who does what and what happens on the boat should be explained and understood before the voyage happens for maximum happiness.
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25-08-2011, 00:38
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#15
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Registered User
Join Date: Jan 2011
Posts: 125
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