Well there certainly is some interesting comments. Galamay, your assumption that I do not have experience is without foundation and I mentioned that I got my coxswains ticket in early 1990’s. I skippered
commercial fishing boats on a part time basis and have owned not less than 20 recreation boats in my life ranging from the 2 small craft I have now to a 7.8 meter custom plate allow. One needs to prove considerable sea time in larger boats to even get your coxswains ticket which I did. I have not owned a
liveaboard boat. I will not respond to some of your other comments
Your suggestion Girth ironically is very close to what I had considered many years ago and frankly is a great idea. I wanted to do this configuration so I could tow a largish
fishing boat as I am a fishing tragic and qualified
scuba diver. I have a 4WD (Ranger) and great off road caravan as well. In terms of on line dating, been there and met a lady who I have been with for about 2 years now and despite her HUGE interest in the
boating life, capacity and willingness to contribute financially, she has “issues” and I do not have great hope she will get over these in time to join me sadly. It sounds like you have a great life Girth so all the best there.
The ’over seas’ lady option… I only recently
sold my condo in Pattaya
Thailand where I lived full time for a few years. I can tell you that all of the comments are valid and frankly, I could tell you some extraordinary examples of friends in
Thailand falling foul to Thai ladies. It probably would be safer sailing a bath tub across the Pacific ocean…if you know what I mean.
Chubby, the option to buy a boat in the
Philippines and Thailand can also pose problems as it is very hard to get someone who is not corrupt to
survey any boat. I have a close friend who has two beautiful sailing vessels in Thailand and has sailed to world several times…he is well experienced. The other issues is getting it back home which I am well aware people do this for a fee but I certainly would not
captain it. I will speak to my friend tonight and see what he says. He is retired in Thailand; is very knowledgeable and more than helpful so thanks Chubby. In concluding, some brilliant suggestions so thanks heaps. There also are some presumptuous, unfounded and far from helpful comments as well but I guess this is the nature of these sites