Hi All
Thanks for the very warm and welcoming replies
I called by
North Carolina Community Sailing & Rowing which has a club house and pontoon on Lake Norman and was made a very welcome visitor.
I got on on the lake with a few members on a Flying Scott and they also have a Sunfish fleet so there is more than enough there for me to get going with.
I got signed up for some lessons - next step World Arc!!

(maybe not!)
Neo - you are spot on about the shifty winds!! I did not believe the
wind could be so variable within a relatively small area - I am used to living near the north atlantic coast and when it blows it blows hard in the same direction almost all day!
I had to remind myself (using google) what a clown car is -
I will have to
work on the admiral

but I got the two
cabin boys
(aged 7 and 3) already under the sailing spell

and the 3 year old keeps asking the admiral "boat - boat - daddy get me boat"
Cheers again for the welcome
Andy