Back in the late 1970s my first wife died of cancer at age 32. Within a year I had bought a Southern Cross 31 hull and
deck with the idea I would finish it off and sail the world. The effort was part of the grieving process and gave me something to focus on outside of my job which I didn't much like at the time. I found a small boatyard in an industrial area with indoor space to
work for a reasonable
price. As a bonus, a much older fellow and his wife were already there building their own
boat. He was an
engineer and a genius. Over time they became my best friends. He also became my teacher. From him, I learned more about
boat building and engineering and life than I ever would have from any
school. Over the next decade and a half we never finished our
boats but we had some great times at 'the yard' punctuated by some terrific parties! Alas, the
boats got
sold, eventually. None of us ever sailed off into the sunset. Do I have regrets? Well, I miss sailing and may buy a
small boat someday to use on one of the small nearby lakes in southern Wisconsin. Would I do it again? YES, in a heartbeat. It got me through a very difficult emotional time and I made the best friends ever! And, I learned a lot of good stuff which has served me well since. These are rewards I never anticipated but were more than worth every penny I spent on the boat.