I decided to take it all apart again and investigate further.... everything holds true until the last turn on the front bolts on the mast plate on
deck, when the plate underneath on the
saloon roof pulls up at front

which in turn offsets the post forward 25mm at the bottom.
I put in a few shims, only 3mm was required, tightened everything up again and the post sits where it should.
Now i have the solution i need to take the whole thing apart again and clean the bolts and holes of sikaflex before a final fit.....
I think the reason was that the aft bolts were screwing home , but the front ones were not and as a result were pulling up after the rest were tight?
Anyway, thanks for the wake up call rognvald.