I have taken a long handle screwdriver and pierced them before, a big, strong one, stick it all the way through both sides and use the handle to loosen, yes it may tear the can some.
Of course it will bleed oil
like a stuck pig so be prepared to catch that.
It used to be common on new cars of the 70ís to have the oil filter
stupid tight, I donít know why, but the factory filter sometimes took excessive force to remove.
The screwdriver always worked for me, just use a strong one