Steering: Hydraulic is common,and a good way to transfer
wheel motion to the
rudder without having to worry about routing of
cables. Also works well with an
autopilot. On sailboats
cables are often preferred, I suspect because the
wheel usually is close to the
rudder. Steering hydraulics are usually manual, the
pump being driven by the wheel.
Bow thruster: First, do you want one at all? If you do, then electricity is the more common solution, because this use requires an active
pump, which in turn means either running the
engine or an
electric pump, in which case why do it?
Windlass: You want one, but the same comments apply.
In all, I'd say that active hydraulic systems belong on power boats above some certain size. I've toyed with the idea, including for steering (no wheel), but doubt that I will pursue it.