Sounds like trouble to me. My belief is that i rely on myself only. The more you try to rely on others I think the more your asking for trouble. Only believing in your abilities to me is best. Do not ask for help, just do it yourself. Now if you are just
learning that's great and have fun. But do it yourself. Trust what you know and like the rest practice and eventually you will get the hang of it. The only time I got into trouble once was in Santa Barbara, Ca when I was coming in and two neighbors came to help and grab lines, got me all screwed up and I said thanks but I better take it from here and backed out and and down about 50 yards and came back to do it again with no help, the way I know how for me the only way to do it. I then brought the boat in the way i know how and stepped off and tied her up. I wave people off that want to help. I had a
single engine commercial vessel once. I tied and old tire to the main board walk (you could cover it with some sort of
canvas to look good and and no tire marks) anyway it hung down just at right height. I could come in and nudge up to the tire turned the
wheel to the right (my slip was on the left) with
engine in forward (idle of course) of course and just stepped off, while good people wanting to help, no need but thanks. The vessel snugged up and stayed there until I tied it up. Then got back in and turned the
motor off and finished tying her up the way i wanted. Simple clean and looks good as well. And always works no matter the
weather. The better you get at boat handling under all condition the more fun you have and pride in what you ave learned. Happy sailing. I'm 75 now and I love
boating more then just about anything. It seems I have always had a boat of some kind or another most of my adult life. This was not a
family thing, my dad was lucky to find the dipstick in his car. What a lot of pleasure
boating has brought to my life. What a lot of good people i have met because of boating. I spend more time on my boat whatever it is at the time then on land. Except when I am playing golf which is a lot. . . . Am i still
learning, well. . . . . . I think so, it seems things are never exactly the same
weather coming or going, but it is all good. Coming and going are the most hazardous times on your boat unless you are out in a storm. So yes it does require that you spend a lot more time practicing
docking, in and out it really it pays off eventually. There is nothing like being in complete control of your vessel with confidence. Happy trails.
Captain Chuck