It seems that your little boat has a fractional
sloop rig with swept back spreaders. This means that the only thing keeping forestay tension up under sailing loads is tension in the shrouds. Soooo, if the stay is going slack (which adversely affects the shape of the jib), I'd suggest increasing the preload in the shrouds when you set up the rig... a bit at a time, until the forestay remains pretty straight when you are sailing to windward.
You can do this while sailing: while sailing to windward, tighten the leeward
shroud a turn. This will be easy becausse it is unloaded on the lee side. Then tack and do exactly the same on the other shroud. Check forestay sag and repeat the process until the stay behaves correctly.
BTW, adding a masthead backstay won't help much... it would just induce a lot of bend in the
mast... not something that you want when just learning!
She looks like a fun boat, so enjoy!
Jim