Get a great boat you like and enjoy the heck out of it. come
Hawaii passage time, hire a experienced licensed
skipper for the
route. Then you can enjoy the trip, and have somebody else on watch all night. A good
skipper will know what prep your boat needs to go
offshore if you missed something. Think of it as an offshore
passage making class and the skipper is the teacher. And when you get home, you and your parents knowledge base has jumped up tremendously, and you are rested from a
vacation and once in a lifetime
learning experience rather than a brutal slog with no sleep and massive responsibility.
I have no offshore experience (except for
commercial powered), and no boat. so take my opinion for what it's worth. (very little)
I live in Oxnard. if you decide you want some crew, PM me.