John:
You say: "I have a wife and 3 little
kids that may come from time to time." and since you also say that there is no penalty for honesty, then
permit me one more kick at the cat :-)
Someone made a comment about enthusiasm. That's more apposite than you may think at the present time, and while this was unspoken heretofore, the enthusiasm in question is not just your own. If you would be a happy boat owner and sailorman, then look up from the boat specs! A
novice has not yet the knowledge to verify other people's judgments about particular boats. Look instead to your WIFE's enthusiasm for your plan!
As an old hand at "crooz'n'learns" I can tell you that MOST wives are not interested. They are aboard only to please their menfolk and to keep their marriages together. Particularly when there are kiddy-winks involved. I fell to me as the
skipper on "crooz'n'learns" to be not only the
skipper, but the
deckhand, the instructor, the cook and bottlewasher, the stand-up comedian, the shoulder to lean on, the receptacle for the ladies' grousing and the man that swabbed the puke off the
deck when Neptune played silly-buggers.
One of my party tricks was to put the slightest woman, or the most disgruntled, on the
helm and slick the 27 ton
ketch alongside under full sail at a particular marina's hammerhead. The woman's guv'nor had been told off to the foredeck so he would stay out of my way and not interfere with my teaching, as husbands will all to often do. Then I'd stand in the hatchway, all sweetness and light, totally laid back, next to the woman on the
helm and give helming orders toned down to be mere suggestions, since most
women just HATE to hear an order given, particularly by a man. We'd come to a dead stop 6 inches out from the bullrail, and the
canvas would come rattling down, menfolk generally being happy enuff to take orders :-)! Then I'd turn to the woman on the helm, go all effusive and say: "Damn Jenny! You are really, really good! D'ye wanna do it again?" The cheekiness was never
lost on the woman :-)!
Do think about the psychological dynamics of your plan and make sure you are on safe ground before you get too wrapped up in all the technical stuff :-)!
Cheers
TP