You’re going to have a great time. Remember your primary goal…. You want your wife to love cruising.
Get the bigger boat with A/C, ESPECIALLY if you want to get your wife excited about cruising.
Don’t go for the adrenaline sailing trip if you want your wife to have fun and think about future cruising. I know way too many guys that went that path and now have to sail alone and will never go cruising.
The entire loop of the BVI is about 60 miles and that’s including a stop in
Anegada. All your sails are going to be short. It’s all mooring balls; super easy.
There’s a saying when you start to get into larger boats…. On the ocean your boat is always to small and in the marina it’s always too big. So when you’re out sailing you’re going to be fine. let the charter company take her out and bring her into dock for you if you have any doubts. No stress and more enjoyment for your wife.
Don’t worry about running out of
diesel. You’re only going for a week. If you motored the whole time (60nm) you’d burn 10-12 gals. IF you run out
diesel there are several good docks to refuel at that won’t be stressful.
Do try and get a boat with a
water maker if at all possible (as a future cruiser you’ll have one). Running out of
water will bring you to a dock at least once on your trip unless you impose serious rationing; again not so much fun, especially for your wife who you want to love this lifestyle.
Have fun!