My first response is to say life and experience is the best way to learn how to deal and overcome adversity. But how to get that experience in a controlled safe
environment?. As
boat people one of our main challenges can be surviving in really really bad storm conditions. Doing an off shore survival course vis a vis the type offered to the off shore
oil industry is an excellent way to gain experience and confidence in dealing with storm conditions. Complete with Wave machine in a big pool, a
wind machine which could blow you off your feet and
water spray to witch becomes hard hurting driven rain. Covers launching life rafts, getting survivors into the life raft and all the procedure for alerting would be rescuers. The course is a week long. Couple that with a HUET helicopter course which can be intergreatd in to the pool
work is a must if you do this. 2 reasons. The first is you are subjected to a simulated landing in storm condition
water 4 or 5 times. Each time more and more challenging. The final time your helicopter body capsizes and sinks quickly. Great experience for exiting a capzised mono or cat. Last but not least a weeks first aid and trauma course will help u focus on fixing any injuries to
family and /or crew. All of the above have helped me deal with serious accidents and other life threating experiences / situations in the past. Good luck, be safe and if you cant be safe then be careful