Thanks to all who posted here. There is a lot of insight which just prompts more questions, haha.
To answer some of the posters....
Our boat drafts 5.5 feet. the mast is 55 feet.
I want to sail. I want sail oceans, coastal, sounds, you name it. Not so much lakes.
The lake was fine to learn on, though I wouldn't consider the lake something to aspire to. Too little wind, too little space, too few destinations.
The main trouble with the lake is that it's more like surfing....you have to be ready to drop what you are doing if there is wind. You can't plan a multi-day trip with more than a few days notice b/c there may be no wind at all.
I enjoy anything over 10kts and feeling weather
helm.
My two
kids and wife aren't as into it yet and have needs of theirs that must be considered. Namely, the
kids love to swim, so they immediately start asking when we can stop to swim. My wife likes destinations, so access to lively towns is a consideration as well.
I had originally considered Oriental, due to the number of
boats and rumors of it being a good place to sail. I love the affordability also. My concerns, whether they are founded or not, are as follows:
1) swimming isn't great if advised at all
2) no kids there at the marinas (i have only been once and a 30ish year old sail loft
repair guy told me he and his wife might be the only people under 50 there)
3) not the most active town life (same concern as above)
4) destinations to sail for
anchoring or town life?
5) water color and sea life? I imagine the kids seeing porpoises in the ocean would be killer. Not so much in the pamlico rt?
6) I hear that due to the shallow water of the pamlico, the water can stand up just a fast or worse than the Ocean? I recently crossed from Swan Qtr to
Ocracoke with a friend in a 19 ft boat and we experienced that exact scenario also.
7) aren't there plenty of shoals in the pamlico to have to navigate also? There certainly were on our
passage to
Ocracoke.
As for destinations from Oriental, Ocracoke is an obvious winner, though there doesn't seem to be an option for pumping the
head in our boat?
Can one actually sail to Hatteras Village??? I thought the water was too shallow there?
So what appeals to me about the Beaufort area is exactly what a couple folks here have mentioned...
1)
Anchoring in the bight of Cape Lookout sounds amazing and the kids should love this. I camped there years ago and loved it. The water is blue and wildlife (horses and porpoises) are abundant.
2) Access to the Ocean to sail is super quick and seems very appealing.
3)Beaufort and Morehead are both alive and well and would be great for my wife after a day of dragging her out to sea....or she could spend a day messing around town while I sail. ( I
single hand as it is so I'm not too worried about lack of crew)
4) Oriental is a day away via
Adams Creek,
anchor and another day to Ocracoke right? Is it possible to get into Ocracoke with 5.5 feet draft from the inlet via the Atlantic? I have heard mixed answers here so far.
5) Sailing to Wrightsville or other destinations further South via the Ocean is a skip away.
The downside to that area seems to be the lack of other Sailors. I'm not stoked on the big
motor boat scene and the rudeness of some boaters that don't know or care about sailboats.
Also, I wasn't aware that the inlet was terribly difficult to navigate. More thoughts on the Beaufort/Morehead marinas and
navigation are much appreciated.
So what makes sailing the Pamlico or the Neuse better than the Giant Ocean next door? Forgive my naivety here; I am a new sailor. I do love the idea of just getting out sailing a
single tack for a while and watching the land drop away. I also aspire to
offshore sailing so the Ocean seems more apropos than the sound for that goal no?
Looking forward to hearing more on the topic! It has been so hard to get info on NC from just
google searches and I don't know enough sailors to get info via word of mouth.
Thanks again for all your replies!