Ouch

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I think definitely one for your lawyer to advise on - especially on what options the finance company has and how best to
work with them (could be that they would settle on having the added
security of a formal lien on the insurance monies that are due to you - of course that may mean that at the end of the day not enough cash to
rebuild the property as the Finance Company snaffle their cash).
and very likely that letters from the lawyer will be given more weight than from you when proposing a temporary deal and as part of negotiating that he can write to them nicely saying: "good luck with finding the boat

".....not to say that you want to sail off into the sunset waving 2 fingers at them

, but it is one of the potential scenarios and likely something they should be bearing in mind.........but to achieve that will need to get above the folks who simply do what the computer says (my guess is that your circumstances don't fit into the "standard" - so you need someone with half a brain involved at the Finance Company who can make decisions)........my guess is the standard is to get a judgement ASAP so they can then easily go after your assets as and when they appear - so IMO you want to offer them that without the extra cost and aggro of them going all
legal on yer ass

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To my view, the thing you want to avoid is going in default with the finance company - not so much for the negative credit scores but to save racking up finance company penalties and
legal costs (for judgement and attempted recovery)........would be simple enough for the Finance Company to give you a year to play with at interest only (rolled up) in exchange for the "lien" (likely a different legal term - but am having a brain fart at the moment!) over the insurance monies. The risk is of course that you lose the claim

, but you could also throw in the sweetener as part of getting the 12 months leeway of agreeing to bring the boat back to US waters (at a named port?) until the claim is settled so that in 12 months time they can easily seize and sell the boat (if you have not done so already by then - IMO would be wise to at least put it on the market, just in case - don't want to end up with a forced
sale and perhaps still owe some cash on her!).
I am of course not a lawyer! - best of luck

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