Congratulations on moving aboard!
No, I don't think turning the
water pressure on and off is going to introduce any
leaks. I think you are just experiencing what most of us do when we move aboard - you are using things more now than before, and you get more failures as the
boat transitions from a weekend use to full-time use.
Plumbing leaks are probably no big deal. Use good
sealant on threaded fittings and quality hose clamps like AWAB on barbed fittings. Look for cracked plastic fittings and replace with something higher quality.
To find seepage and itty bitty leaks I use
toilet paper or kleenex. Wiping it on a fitting it will pick up very small droplets that I can't see by eye alone.
When done you should be able to leave your
water pump turned on for a week and it will only energize when someone is actually using water. If you hear the
pump come on during the middle of the night for a few seconds when no one is up, then you still have a small leak somewhere.
Best of luck!
Steve