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12-02-2012, 22:09
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#121
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Registered User
Join Date: Mar 2006
Location: San Francisco, CA
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Posts: 3,864
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Re: Sailing With Cancer
Fiddler's Green YouTube - Broadcast Yourself. an appropiate song for sailors when they die.
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Fair Winds,
Charlie
Between us there was, as I have already said somewhere, the bond of the sea. Besides holding our hearts together through long periods of separation, it had the effect of making us tolerant of each other's yarns -- and even convictions. Heart of Darkness
Joseph Conrad
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13-02-2012, 10:12
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#122
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Registered User
Join Date: Nov 2008
Location: Home port Kemah, TX Currently in Brunswick Georgia
Boat: Hunter 36
Posts: 1,524
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Re: Sailing With Cancer
The link will take you to the blog site for the last days of his passing...my heart goes to those who are still suffering and fighting for a cure for Cancer.
http://sailingwithcancer.blogspot.com/2012/02/johns-passing.html
Melanie
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13-02-2012, 11:54
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#123
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Registered User
Join Date: Feb 2011
Location: Northern and Southern California
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Posts: 3,731
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Re: Sailing With Cancer
Quote:
Originally Posted by RTB
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Thank you Melanie for the link. It is hard for me to mourn his passing, I would rather celebrate his life and just feel he is on another passage.
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13-02-2012, 13:37
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#124
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Registered User
Join Date: Aug 2011
Boat: S2 11.0A 36'
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Quote:
Originally Posted by deckofficer
Thank you Melanie for the link. It is hard for me to mourn his passing, I would rather celebrate his life and just feel he is on another passage.
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Deckofficer I think it's what you've become accustomed to. Some grew up like my folks with 3 day funerals and others more toward the Irish wake. I'm with you on celebrating life but families often mourn the loss as well in private. It can be a difficult adjustment for people trying to move on as Mel stated in the blog post.
I raise my glass to John. I wish I'd had the pleasure to meet him personally. He is proof that a determined person can achieve their dreams.
SC
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13-02-2012, 18:44
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#125
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Registered User
Join Date: Jan 2006
Location: Louisville, KY.
Boat: Endeavour 42
Posts: 118
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Re: Sailing With Cancer
What beautiful, inspiring tributes to a man who I had the misfortune of not knowing. Obviously, he enriched the lives of everyone he met. That is the true measure of a well-lived life. RIP John
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13-02-2012, 19:25
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#126
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Registered User
Join Date: Aug 2010
Location: Davilla, TX
Boat: Boatless
Posts: 94
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Re: Sailing With Cancer
I just saw this thread/posts. Many condolences to Melanie. I guess I'll be meeting John eventually as we all will one day. Must be a hell of a guy. I'm sure the party will be the best when we all get together at that great cruisers gathering on the otherside. Sail on John, sail on!
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15-02-2012, 09:46
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#127
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Registered User
Join Date: Aug 2009
Location: Burned to a crisp in Phoenix, AZ
Boat: Not Yet
Posts: 18
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Re: Sailing With Cancer
I haven't posted here much in a long time; mostly because life doesn't go the way you're wanting, or hoping, or planning for. I keep plugging away at it, things will eventually calm down, opportunity will eventually knock, doors open if you keep knocking. With no experience, though, I feel that I don't have much to say, or know enough to ask the right questions.
John - i2f - was one of the members of this forum that I had truely hoped to actually meet someday, along with others here whom I've come to respect. I found out about his passing on his blog, knew there had to be a thread here somewhere and I've finally come across it.
Like Neil, looks like I'll be meeting John eventually on the other side. I hope he's had some truly epic challenges, between now and then; hope by then I'll have some stories of my own.
Don't quit. Don't give up, don't surrender... Very few of people, in my experience, exemplify such sentiments better then i2f.
You'll be missed, and when I've the money, I'll lift a glass to you.
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16-02-2012, 02:45
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#128
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Registered User
Join Date: Apr 2009
Location: Malvernshire, on the sunny side of the hill.
Boat: 50' steel canal and river cruiser
Posts: 1,905
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Bon voyage John
I have just read the link on FB about the very sad loss of John Imagain2frolic
Its a reminder that no matter how young we might feel, one day, that day will be our last and its too late to wish we had stopped dreaming and just done it.
Nuff said
My sympathies to Melanie and family.
Bon voyage and fair winds John.
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16-02-2012, 02:55
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Registered User
Join Date: Feb 2009
Location: Sihanoukville, Cambodia
Boat: looking
Posts: 593
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Re: Sailing With Cancer
I'll post a couple of messages I received from him, soon. I've just read about John passing & I'm a bit at a loss for words, but I wanted to say, "Good-bye, John." He was a great guy and will be missed by many on LiP forums, as well. What did John love most about life? Melanie.
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16-02-2012, 05:49
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#130
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CF Adviser
Join Date: Dec 2008
Location: sausalito
Boat: 14 meter sloop
Posts: 7,260
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Eight bells for a man who stood his watch dutifully.
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16-02-2012, 15:14
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#131
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Registered User
Join Date: Mar 2003
Location: Wherever the boat is!
Boat: Marine Trader 34DC
Posts: 4,619
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Re: Sailing With Cancer
I communicated with John, i2f, on a couple of forums and have read about his health problems. It is so sad to here of his passing but he did live life to the fullest rather than sit and dream about it until the end. Our sympathy and prayers go out to his family and friends. Chuck
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17-02-2012, 18:13
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#132
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Registered User
Join Date: Oct 2010
Location: Kansas City, MO
Boat: In the hunt again, unknown
Posts: 1,331
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Re: Sailing With Cancer
“Rise free from care before the dawn and seek adventure. Let the noon find you by other lakes, and the night overtake thee everywhere at home. There are no larger fields than these, no worthier games than may here be played.” Henry David Thoreau
Don’t cry because it’s over, smile because it happened. Viao Con Dios John
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17-02-2012, 18:48
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#133
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Join Date: Jun 2010
Posts: 530
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Re: Sailing With Cancer
Melanie, condolences from one who did not know John but has been on the same journey as you are on.
In some ways John was very lucky, not only did he have the support of you and his friends but also those whos lives he touched. He had learnt what was important and what is superficial before he passed, wisdom that eludes many.
John will allways be with you because the journey remain even if you have reach your destination. Fair winds & safe harbours to you and your family.
regards
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14-08-2012, 05:19
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#134
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Senior Cruiser
Join Date: Mar 2003
Location: Thunder Bay, Ontario - 48-29N x 89-20W
Boat: (Cruiser Living On Dirt)
Posts: 51,355
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Re: Sailing With Cancer
Melanie has updated the blog, with details and photos of "Imagine" (For Sale):
➥ Sailing with Cancer- One Man's race against time!
Email Mel for more details at: mt_lanie@yahoo.com
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"If you didn't have the time or money to do it right in the first place, when will you get the time/$ to fix it?"
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14-08-2012, 06:14
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#135
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C.L.O.D
Join Date: Apr 2010
Location: UK
Boat: Kalik 40
Posts: 8,264
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Re: Sailing With Cancer
Thanks Gord. John is still much missed, and I hope Mel is well.
I have taken the liberty of creating a classified ad for this boat: http://www.cruisersforum.com/forums/...ml#post1012234
Mel didn't list a value she'd like, so I have asked friends to give an opinion on the value of such a boat.
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