My Confession

[Fishman_Tx]

Dang, Anj, sorry to hear that. Glad to have you back, tho. Missed you 'round here.

[Masquerade]

Bugger

[Cherp]

Mr Right will be around somewhere close. He's probably a sailor who's very social. Hope you bump into him soon.

[Chief Engineer]

Do what they tell you in survival school....if you are lost...stay put...let them find you.

[Ocean Girl]

Sorry to hear that it didn't work out. You will find your sailor man, keep the faith sister On a brighter note - it is great to see your beautiful smiling face again

[Stillraining]

I noticed the new avatar..now I know why...hugs from me too!

[TrevC]

Look on the bright side: There will be a hell of a lot more sailing men looking for women, than sailing women looking for men

[anjou]

Originally Posted by TrevC

Look on the bright side: There will be a hell of a lot more sailing men looking for women, than sailing women looking for men

Even with that ratio being in a girls favour, the odds are still stacked against success. Most men turn into crusty old hermits as the years go by and dont adapt well to new situations.

But, Im ever the optimist.

[Ram]

Originally Posted by anjou

Even with that ratio being in a girls favour, the odds are still stacked against success. Most men turn into crusty old hermits as the years go by and dont adapt well to new situations.

But, Im ever the optimist.

I think you could replace the word Most to Some, and if this is what you really beleave i have no douth its what you will recive !

[TrevC]

Most men turn into crusty old hermits as the years go by...

Go for younger ones!

[bob_77903]

Originally Posted by anjou

Most men turn into crusty old hermits

A few, some, but surely not most....I don't feel old or crusty. Matter of fact, don't plan on ever going there. But good to see ya here again girl

[anjou]

Of course it goes without saying, no man wants to think hes a crusty hermit, old or otherwise, but its how others see you which decides.
We get set in our ways as we get older and two peoples ways may not be compatable, even with liberal amounts of compromise to smooth the path.

Any other ladies wish to elaborate on this subject?

[Ocean Girl]

Originally Posted by anjou

Of course it goes without saying, no man wants to think hes a crusty hermit, old or otherwise, but its how others see you which decides.
We get set in our ways as we get older and two peoples ways may not be compatable, even with liberal amounts of compromise to smooth the path.

Any other ladies wish to elaborate on this subject?

Honey, I hear ya!! I have often wondered over the last few months if I am slowing turning into that...hermit. Sometimes I am so darn happy just putzing around my little boat that I don't miss the outside world at all! (though I do say to myself many times, I wish my mate was here). I have really made an effort to get out and socialize on my dock and with my land friends to keep this "hermit" at bay. So its just not men, we sailor girls are at risk of becoming crusty old women too. Of course a sailor man could remedy that. I agree that the odds are against us, finding our mate I mean. But "life" generally defies the odds. Look around us, we shouldn't be here, we are beating the odds just by breathing! Hmmm... I am getting philosophical, and when I get philosophical I generally lose my audience.

Keep the faith,
Erika

[James S]

Sorry.......what were you saying?

[Ocean Girl]

Originally Posted by James S

Sorry.......what were you saying?

Only a select few understand my genius, and well, they are all at the local sanitarium...