View Poll Results: Am I crazy for not understanding my girlfriends feelings???
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Happy... You're an idiot... Having somebody that cares that much is priceless...
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42.86% |
Happy... I understand her feelings, but I agree with you... Your last sail was together...
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7 |
20.00% |
Happy... In this case, I don't think your girl's feelings are justified...
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7 |
20.00% |
Dood... If you do this, you are never getting any... Uhm... conjugal relations ever again...
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12 |
34.29% |
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07-12-2015, 06:44
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#61
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Registered User
Join Date: Sep 2009
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Re: HappyMdR's SAILING relationship poll !!!
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Originally Posted by a64pilot
Last night as we were going though more stuff to throw / donate, wife came across our youngest daughters dresses from when she was very young, Wife wanted to keep them, I told her sure we can store this stuff, but she started crying when our daughter wanted to throw them away.
You never know what they find important, just whatever it is, even if it seems silly to you, don't belittle it. To them it's important
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^^^ Note he didn't even get to finish his thought before getting nailed by the wife.
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07-12-2015, 07:50
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#62
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Registered User
Join Date: Oct 2015
Location: Germany
Boat: 2ft wide dreaming chair
Posts: 311
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Re: HappyMdR's SAILING relationship poll !!!
you are not selling the Morgan for how many months now?
just curious :P
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07-12-2015, 08:12
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#63
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Moderator Emeritus
Join Date: Oct 2013
Location: Jacksonville/ out cruising
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Posts: 31,351
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Re: HappyMdR's SAILING relationship poll !!!
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Originally Posted by Blue Crab
^^^ Note he didn't even get to finish his thought before getting nailed by the wife.
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I don't understand. I did get to finish my thought, and she didn't nail anyone, just got sad.
She knows we would be doing this whether we move onto the boat or not, to retire we have to downsize, I just can't keep up with a huge yard and pool, she a big, empty house. But while she knows this intellectually, I need to be careful to make sure that I and the boat don't get the blame emotionally.
If you give them reasons to dislike the boat, how do you think your relationship will go ref the boat?
I think as much as anything, it's her realizing we are getting old, and who the Hell wants to do that?
Point is though, that what she considers important, you may not, but in the interest of being a good guy, you ought to.
In my case rather than laughing at her, calling her silly to worry about old dresses that no one wanted, I said, sure we can store them, no problem. It's not like we aren't going to have to store some things, and that these things will take up any room, they won't.
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07-12-2015, 09:41
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#64
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Registered User
Join Date: Dec 2008
Location: SC
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Re: HappyMdR's SAILING relationship poll !!!
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Originally Posted by carstenb
Lassie - that book is not Volume 1 - it is the executive summary of volume 1, which in itself is the first of 39061 volumes which are a shortened version of the explanation of where men's and womens' logic differ.
The biggest US government supercomputer has calculated that the answer to "why women and mens logic differ" question will be available about the same time as the sun goes supernova.
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07-12-2015, 11:30
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#65
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Registered User
Join Date: Oct 2015
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Re: HappyMdR's SAILING relationship poll !!!
Quote:
Originally Posted by carstenb
Lassie - that book is not Volume 1 - it is the executive summary of volume 1, which in itself is the first of 39061 volumes which are a shortened version of the explanation of where men's and womens' logic differ.
The biggest US government supercomputer has calculated that the answer to "why women and mens logic differ" question will be available about the same time as the sun goes supernova.
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i think that is more an "if the answer and the question exist in the universe at the same time, something terrible will happen" case.
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07-12-2015, 12:28
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#66
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Registered User
Join Date: Sep 2009
Location: Hurricane Highway
Boat: O'Day 28
Posts: 3,920
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Re: HappyMdR's SAILING relationship poll !!!
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Originally Posted by a64pilot
I don't understand. I did get to finish my thought, and she didn't nail anyone, ...
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I was playing off the fact that you didn't put a period at the end of yer sentence. It was a joke. And a funny one, dadgumit.
You said the right thing. Plus that's how it works: You pay storage on all that stuff for years until you realize yer NEVER going to put it on the boat anyway. I had to leave MY TABLE SAW. That hurt.
Now, let's get back to making fun of "Happy" MdR. It's noon his time, he'll be up soon after the weekend of debauchery his girl was worried about.
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07-12-2015, 12:30
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#67
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Join Date: Aug 2013
Location: Oakland, CA
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Posts: 2,503
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Re: HappyMdR's SAILING relationship poll !!!
Ugh, option E -- "Dood, emotional blackmail/guilt trips suck."
This is one of many reasons why I remain happily single
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07-12-2015, 13:07
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#68
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CLOD
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Re: HappyMdR's SAILING relationship poll !!!
Get in the boat and sail ............................................ to Mexico. Don't leave a forwarding address.
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07-12-2015, 13:38
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#69
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Registered User
Join Date: Nov 2012
Location: Long Beach, CA
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Posts: 2,804
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Re: HappyMdR's SAILING relationship poll !!!
The Owl and the Pussy-cat went to sea
In a beautiful pea-green boat,
They took some honey, and plenty of money,
Wrapped up in a five-pound note.
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And hand in hand, on the edge of the sand,
They danced by the light of the moon,
The moon,
The moon,
They danced by the light of the moon.
S/V B'Shert
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07-12-2015, 13:51
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#70
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Moderator
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Re: HappyMdR's SAILING relationship poll !!!
SeaDreaming thinks this is an out and out manipulation, and it could be.
Or, it could be a test.
We don't know what underlies the communication, and we only have MdR's interpretation of it, anyway.
I won't vote, either.
I still think it comes down to the "keeper" issue, and I'm thinking she's not, because this essentially very private issue has been put out here.
Ann
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07-12-2015, 13:53
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#71
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Join Date: May 2010
Location: SF Bay Area; Former Annapolis and MA Liveaboard.
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Posts: 6,197
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Re: HappyMdR's SAILING relationship poll !!!
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Originally Posted by Tayana42
The Owl and the Pussy-cat went to sea
In a beautiful pea-green boat,
They took some honey, and plenty of money,
Wrapped up in a five-pound note.
......
And hand in hand, on the edge of the sand,
They danced by the light of the moon,
The moon,
The moon,
They danced by the light of the moon.
S/V B'Shert
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Ummm...in a sieve they went to sea as i remember the poem
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07-12-2015, 13:58
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#72
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Registered User
Join Date: Nov 2012
Location: Long Beach, CA
Boat: Tayana Vancouver 42
Posts: 2,804
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Re: HappyMdR's SAILING relationship poll !!!
If you have enough 5 pound notes you can plug the sieve.
S/V B'Shert
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07-12-2015, 14:53
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#73
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Registered User
Join Date: Oct 2015
Location: Germany
Boat: 2ft wide dreaming chair
Posts: 311
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Re: HappyMdR's SAILING relationship poll !!!
Quote:
Originally Posted by Ann T. Cate
(...)Or, it could be a test.(...)
Ann
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i don't think anything at all serious was intended.
Happy finally really selling his second boat means the southbound preparations are in the final stage.
lighten up
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07-12-2015, 18:07
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#74
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Moderator
Join Date: Oct 2008
Boat: Bestevaer 49
Posts: 16,151
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Re: HappyMdR's SAILING relationship poll !!!
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Originally Posted by Simonsays
i don't think anything at all serious was intended.
Happy finally really selling his second boat means the southbound preparations are in the final stage.
lighten up
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Nothing serious? 2000 views in the last day or two sounds like very clever marketing to me .
Happy, has the boat sold yet? If not, do you want to tell us a bit more about her?
SWL
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07-12-2015, 18:24
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#75
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cruiser
Join Date: May 2010
Location: SF Bay Area; Former Annapolis and MA Liveaboard.
Boat: Looking and saving for my next...mid-atlantic coast
Posts: 6,197
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Re: HappyMdR's SAILING relationship poll !!!
Relax folks! SWL is on the case!
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