Cruisers Forum

Join CruisersForum Today

Thread Tools Rate Thread Display Modes
Old 19-09-2009, 23:06   #1
Registered User
Guilcolax's Avatar

Join Date: Aug 2008
Location: Atlanta today with heading unknown.
Posts: 1
Send a message via Skype™ to Guilcolax
Landflubber Moving Out to Sea...

Landflubber is not a typo, just represents the consumerism lifestyle that has me overweight and wondering, uh, how did I get to this wast line? It surely was not surf and turf with top wines at the five star establishments in town. So LandFLUBBER describes my feeling and physical perspective at this point.

Well my lovely bride and our three children (8, 6,4 - the latter turning just recently) have decided that suburbia and the consumer driven lifestyles are not for us. We've committed to a live aboard lifestyle by spring of '10.

We've told everyone but our parents, duh just read our Facebook posts and listen to a conversation, because they have a habit of affecting circumstances towards resolutions that keep us near. This time it is about OUR family and investing our children - you know, those critters keeping us alive through adrenal gland palpitations at the most inopportune moment.

Boat?!? Never been on one more than deep sea fishing (puked) and many ferries to islands. So we are surely nuts.

Nuts about what we've seen on this forum and over a dozen blogs of families that we follow. We know that a 5-10 year window exists before we must focus our love and support towards family needs. We just don't want to wake up like our parents and wonder who our childern are, who we are and what we're doing every day.

This is a self-indulgent note so my apologies. I've been a lurker here and other forums. Culling the information posted about living aboard, children, money, work, the real OMG this is not a vacation what was I thinking posts. My bride (Admiral to be as noted by the sage wizards of love herein) is the electrical/AV/digital/project management/list purveyor/bolts holding our nuts to this realty. Me?.?..?...? I'm input - cash flow, if I'm lucky.

We're into experiencing life not just living it. I've made money, driven fancy cars, member of exclusive clubs and realized those goals were from a broken Gorden Geko movie I watched and my Dad lived. No silver spoon here, just a fubared perspective on what I'm suppose to do with my life.

So in advance of my posts I'll ask for forgiveness, patience and your assistance as we begin our quest to introduce our family to a new life aboard. We'll cast off our land based life; already sold one car and place ourselves on a ridiculously tight budget for the next 9 months. We're selling things on eBay, giving to Good Will and repairing portions of our home prior to placing on the market in the spring. We've told everyone no presents of tangible size and focused on digital assets/books and subtle treats for the kids.

I've taken advice of those in this forum to not over educate ourselves on what to expect. Instead we're accepting the facts of learning on the job (albeit we do need some certifications to buy a boat without a complete reaming with insurers.)

We're also subjecting our children to tight quarters with several land based expeditions via cross country travels in our Eurovan and tent. As a salesman in technology I have clients across the country and not challenged with a reason to be in a particular location for busines. We just need to get there at some point in time.

If you've read to this point God help you and you'll definitely have a setting for you on our boat. I'll start posting questions as we aggressively pursue this life you've proven so valuable to your families.

Thank you for welcoming me, us and the R5 to your world.

Warm regards,
Captain Ron
(Really, I'm Ron, see, I'm even invoking a silly movie in my closing - we're doomed to having fun at my expense!!!!)

Guilcolax is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 20-09-2009, 02:57   #2
Moderator Emeritus
GordMay's Avatar

Cruisers Forum Supporter

Join Date: Mar 2003
Location: Thunder Bay, Ontario - 48-29N x 89-20W
Boat: (Cruiser Living On Dirt)
Posts: 29,326
Images: 240
Greetings and welcome aboard the CF, Ron.
Can you enlighten us about your interesting screen name?

Gord May
"If you didn't have the time or money to do it right in the first place, when will you get the time/$ to fix it?"

GordMay is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 20-09-2009, 06:57   #3
Moderator Emeritus
Ex-Calif's Avatar

Cruisers Forum Supporter

Join Date: May 2007
Location: Singapore
Boat: Maxi 77 - Relax Lah!
Posts: 11,514
Images: 4
Welcome aboard captain Ron! Sounds like you have a good attitude. Enjoy teh adventure. And regarding the downsizing. it can be done for the waistline as well as the closets. I recently went berserk and have lost 45 pounds.

It's tough as we are fighting against years of McD, Lattes, KFC, yada, yada, yada...

It's all about fresh and not fried...
Relax Lah! is For Sale <--- Click
Click--> Custom CF Google Search or CF Rules
You're gonna need a bigger boat... - Martin Brody
Ex-Calif is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 20-09-2009, 08:16   #4
CF Adviser
Moderator Emeritus
TaoJones's Avatar

Cruisers Forum Supporter

Join Date: Dec 2006
Location: Montrose, Colorado
Posts: 9,850
Originally Posted by GordMay View Post
Greetings and welcome aboard the CF, Ron.
Can you enlighten us about your interesting screen name?
Don't know about his user name, but I like the stylized avatar. It looks to me like a sun symbol or a turtle on the palm with R5 in its center. I take this to represent Ron, his wife and their three children. It may even be that the first names of the other four, like Ron, all begin with R.

"Your vision becomes clear only when you look into your own heart. Who looks outside, dreams; who looks within, awakens."
Carl Gustav Jung (1875-1961)
TaoJones is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 23-09-2009, 09:13   #5
Registered User
swagman's Avatar

Join Date: Sep 2005
Location: Winter land based UK New Forest. Summer months away. Making the transition from sail to power this year - scary stuff.
Boat: Super Van Craft 1320 Power Yacht
Posts: 2,175
Images: 10
Send a message via Skype™ to swagman
If thats your opener, you'll do OK.

Good luck Ron. Hope you realise the dreams.

Don't take life too seriously. No ones going to make it out alive......Go see our blog at
swagman is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 23-09-2009, 10:18   #6
Registered User
flashmutt007's Avatar

Join Date: Aug 2009
Location: Charles Town WV
Posts: 58
Welcome and good luck moving toward the dream.
a.k.a. - Flashmutt007
flashmutt007 is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 24-09-2009, 17:51   #7
Registered User
Ashoreschool's Avatar

Join Date: Aug 2009
Location: United States
Posts: 101
Captain Ron and family, welcome aboard. This forum can be a wonderful resource for you and hope you find the adventure your looking for in exciting lifestyle you have laid out.
Good luck
Tom and Marilyn Free eLearning prep center for the new sailor. Plus links to over a half dozen FREE On-line Marine Magazines
Ashoreschool is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 24-09-2009, 21:43   #8
Registered User
pjop's Avatar

Join Date: Jun 2008
Location: Mobile, Alabama
Boat: Endeavour 37
Posts: 111
Never been sailing?? You're in for a rush! Have fun, be safe, but not in that order. I puke too on fishing boats, almost never sailing.
pjop is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 04-10-2009, 13:10   #9
Senior Cruiser
SkiprJohn's Avatar

Cruisers Forum Supporter

Join Date: May 2006
Location: Kea'au, Big Island, Hawaii
Boat: Cascade, Sloop, 42 - "Casual"
Posts: 14,169
Aloha R5
Welcome aboard! Just take it slowly in bite size chunks and you'll do fine. I do recommend basic sailing classes for the familiy. Our club instructs 8 year olds and older and a club might be a good idea. If not a club then find a sailing school and see if you can get a family package deal.
Coast Guard Auxiliary classes are jam packed with information but not on the water for sailing.
See if you can get yourself invited aboard a boat at Lake Lanier.
Ashoreschool has a lot of information that appears to be very good an very current.

SkiprJohn is offline   Reply With Quote

family, kids, liveaboard, new sailors

Thread Tools
Display Modes Rate This Thread
Rate This Thread:

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are Off
Pingbacks are Off
Refbacks are Off

Similar Threads
Thread Thread Starter Forum Replies Last Post
Moving a traveller exranger Construction, Maintenance & Refit 11 09-07-2006 19:17
Moving a thread... Alan Wheeler Forum Tech Support & Site Help 5 02-02-2006 10:29

Our Communities

Our communities encompass many different hobbies and interests, but each one is built on friendly, intelligent membership.

» More about our Communities

Automotive Communities

Our Automotive communities encompass many different makes and models. From U.S. domestics to European Saloons.

» More about our Automotive Communities

Marine Communities

Our Marine websites focus on Cruising and Sailing Vessels, including forums and the largest cruising Wiki project on the web today.

» More about our Marine Communities

Copyright 2002-2015 Social Knowledge, LLC All Rights Reserved.

All times are GMT -7. The time now is 13:12.

Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.8 Beta 1
Copyright ©2000 - 2016, vBulletin Solutions, Inc.
Social Knowledge Networks
Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.8 Beta 1
Copyright ©2000 - 2016, vBulletin Solutions, Inc.

ShowCase vBulletin Plugins by Drive Thru Online, Inc.