Single Sailors Seeking Soul Mate Group

[SaltyMonkey]

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[solarbri]

Originally Posted by SaltyMonkey

My instincts lead me to believe that the pattern is: woman are attracted to successful and "go get 'em" personalities in the male species...then they discover that the attributes that make them that way also make them pig headed and stupid.

It can work the other way around also.
Trust me. I know...

[solarbri]

Originally Posted by SaltyMonkey

Soulmate - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

That's all you got?
I've dated many women with whom that definition in wikipedia works.
Were they all my soul mates?
What does the mind of a SaltMonkey have to say...

[SaltyMonkey]

Read my back posts here...

But the true definition is only one...twin flame or twin soul found in mythology.

[Gadagirl]

Originally Posted by SaltyMonkey

My instincts lead me to believe that the pattern is: woman are attracted to successful and "go get 'em" personalities in the male species...then they discover that the attributes that make them that way also make them pig headed and stupid.

that is why you should know the difference between primary and secondary values. Successful should not be more important than being nice.

[Gadagirl]

Originally Posted by Auspicious

Baby wipes will take care of that real quick.

Gada girl and SaltyMonkey have good lists.

I just need someone who will be nice to me. For me that wraps up most of the lists and adds some other behaviors I find attractive.

Dave. Don't you think that you should inform all the fine ladies here that you have already found that? Don't give us false hope.

[Gadagirl]

Originally Posted by David_Old_Jersey

Nothing gets me going in the morning like sucking on a fag

You're talking about cigarettes right?

Smokers welcome - just BYO

Good to know. Most times I'm banished.

[anjou]

Originally Posted by SaltyMonkey

My instincts lead me to believe that the pattern is: woman are attracted to successful and "go get 'em" personalities in the male species...then they discover that the attributes that make them that way also make them pig headed and stupid.

Sure a guy with that successful edge is preferrable to a dork, but as with all things in life, its a compromise and ballance of many things.

Ive dated some high flyers and wealthy guys, but that can often lead to arrogance and elitism, which arnt attractive qualities. One married guy I once knew was very down to earth, he was a builder and appeared very ordinary, yet he had a presense and humble confidence that stood out.

[Auspicious]

Originally Posted by Gadagirl

Dave. Don't you think that you should inform all the fine ladies here that you have already found that? Don't give us false hope.

Absolutely Judy. I thought I had done that previously. Perhaps not.

Some of success in relationships is timing. Some is self-awareness. But those aren't values ...

For what it's worth, I have left several new sailing women (still friends) available for you other guys during my search. *grin*

[Gadagirl]

Sorry Dave. Just poking a little fun at you.

[SaltyMonkey]

Originally Posted by Auspicious

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For what it's worth, I have left several new sailing women (still friends) available for you other guys during my search. *grin*

geez...im still workin' on the boat

[Gadagirl]

Originally Posted by David_Old_Jersey

I agree that non verbal communication is important, if it helps I can communicate in grunts For me the best guide to people (not just women) is what they do, not say...........and over time. lots of it.

Agree. Actions speak louder than words and backing up your words with actions speak volumes about any person.

[Auspicious]

Originally Posted by Gadagirl

Sorry Dave. Just poking a little fun at you.

Just don't want to look like one of those guys trolling outside a relationship.

Janet's great - quite aside from all the great relationship stuff she's done a bunch of overnights, some coastal hopping, and one passage with me. She's still adjusting to passagemaking, but her biggest complaint was not being able to do her share of the cooking. Fortunately she doesn't have any complaints about my food. I can actually sleep soundly while she is on watch.

[flysci]

Soulmate? I don't believe in the soul, nor in karma, so I guess I'm not looking for one. Guess I"m looking for a mate, who is, as Gadagirl says, NICE.

[FxdGrMind]

Originally Posted by flysci

Guess I"m looking for a mate, who is, as Gadagirl says, NICE.

Yea... what's up with the "nice" women out there???? I get accused of being a "nice" guy, over and over and over... All I seem to find is women'z looking for @$$ hats...

Just when you think things are on track... they drift off and find some AH... and leave you flat, scratching your head.

Come on "nice" women, what gives??? There are some awfully nice guy's out here... don't just look and leave, give it a shot. What have you got to loose? Are you more willing to take big risk with an AH... but not with a nice guy???

Please explain....