@ 2hullvenus and all the others....
If you are a boater, you are a boater, thats the point... maybe you did some things in the past wrong, e.g. "boat is too big and your finances are too small".
Strong, self confident
women out there are well educated, they even can educate kidds alone after divorcing or in patchwork families...
The female psyche is something
men in modern world dont get teached, neither in
school nor at university. So its up to them to learn differently, e.g. reading beviour sciences, study about psychology etc. ...
If a
skipper comes along with a boat which - per se - brings lots of troubles with, why should a woman fall in love with such a "messie chaos type" ??? :-)
Doest make sense, isnt ?
A
skipper should know what is going, on his boat... and it should float... not standing on land, being a MV (motor vessel) instead a SV (sailing vessel).
If one manages everything fine, all is well organized, symbolically spoken "the frigerator is filled" (which is a very important signal for women that a man can handle his life not starving of hunger or ending in poorness), then he can attract the right women.
Another aspect... its an illusion to find the right woman via
Internet... all virtuality... and for nothing good. Still for falling in love is "real life" the relevant key factor.
A human body is built over thousands of years, the genes fix our behaviour unconciously. E.g. smelling, hormons etc. ... all that comes into count.
If I would like to find a woman who is addicted to sailing, I'd go into the
marinas, sailing clubs, look at the regattas where a cool woman brings her trophies home. There are enough women out there who love sailing. And who know how to sail.
One good example of an excellent female sailor is
Carol Hasse. Ever heard of ? She is
member of the wooden boat foundation, has a 100 ton Captains licence and owns an own boat, a Folke boat. It is in perfect conditions.
Watch her and you will see: she is sweet, she is smart, she is professional, she is entertaining and she has good princips... an excellent boat owner.
If a man want attract a woman, he at least should present such kind of picture Carol Hasse is giving. She is even a good musician and entertaining. (
Rec.: The
music in the background is played by herself finger picking on the guitar (which you can recognize in the last sequence of this vid).)
Such women are out there... I could address more, e.g.
Claudia from
Italy; she flew in 2014 to
Australia for a complete
refit of the legendary
Trimaran Spirit... its a
racing boat (Formula 40 Trimaran). And the
refit was a really dirty, ugly and hard work...
The boat came back into the
water in July... she even can
repair diesel engines, drive cranes etc. ... if the boat owner like
Jason gives a woman like Claudia the feeling, that everything is in balance and giving a positive perspective, it can work. Women can work hard and become dirty... but not too long (at least in Western world), as life is too short.
The result we can see here... the day of relaunch in July 2015...
Women dont like touble shooters, same as most
men dont like bitchy slutty girls. On a sailing boat it does not work. All has to be down-to-earth.
Sometimes it is better to offer something on a smaller scale... not too big, not too expensive, but cosy... and its affordable.
Here
Amy looking with her hubby how to start a new life with a
used boat and how to finance it. This man can be very happy to have her, but he is not a crazy mad guy she wouldnt like it by sure.