@ 2hullvenus and all the others....
If you are a boater, you are a boater, thats the point... maybe you did some things in the past wrong, e.g. "boat is too big and your finances are too small".
Strong, self confident women out there are well educated, they even can educate kidds alone after divorcing or in patchwork families...
The female psyche is something men
in modern world dont get teached, neither in school
nor at university. So its up to them to learn differently, e.g. reading beviour sciences, study about psychology etc. ...
If a skipper
comes along with a boat which - per se - brings lots of troubles with, why should a woman fall in love with such a "messie chaos type" ??? :-)
Doest make sense, isnt ?
should know what is going, on his boat... and it should float... not standing on land, being a MV (motor vessel) instead a SV (sailing vessel).
If one manages everything fine, all is well organized, symbolically spoken "the frigerator is filled" (which is a very important signal for women that a man can handle his life not starving of hunger or ending in poorness), then he can attract the right women.
Another aspect... its an illusion to find the right woman via Internet
... all virtuality... and for nothing good. Still for falling in love is "real life" the relevant key factor.
A human body is built over thousands of years, the genes fix our behaviour unconciously. E.g. smelling, hormons etc. ... all that comes into count.
If I would like to find a woman who is addicted to sailing, I'd go into the marinas
, sailing clubs, look at the regattas where a cool woman brings her trophies home. There are enough women out there who love sailing. And who know how to sail.
One good example of an excellent female sailor is Carol Hasse
. Ever heard of ? She is member
of the wooden boat foundation, has a 100 ton Captains licence and owns an own boat, a Folke boat. It is in perfect conditions.
Watch her and you will see: she is sweet, she is smart, she is professional, she is entertaining and she has good princips... an excellent boat owner.
If a man want attract a woman, he at least should present such kind of picture Carol Hasse is giving. She is even a good musician and entertaining. (Rec.:
in the background is played by herself finger picking on the guitar (which you can recognize in the last sequence of this vid).)
Such women are out there... I could address more, e.g. Claudia
; she flew in 2014 to Australia
for a complete refit
of the legendary Trimaran Spirit
... its a racing
boat (Formula 40 Trimaran). And the refit
was a really dirty, ugly and hard work...
The boat came back into the water
in July... she even can repair diesel
engines, drive cranes etc. ... if the boat owner like Jason
gives a woman like Claudia the feeling, that everything is in balance and giving a positive perspective, it can work. Women can work hard and become dirty... but not too long (at least in Western world), as life is too short.
The result we can see here... the day of relaunch in July 2015...
Women dont like touble shooters, same as most men
dont like bitchy slutty girls. On a sailing boat it does not work. All has to be down-to-earth.
Sometimes it is better to offer something on a smaller scale... not too big, not too expensive, but cosy... and its affordable.
looking with her hubby how to start a new life with a used boat
and how to finance it. This man can be very happy to have her, but he is not a crazy mad guy she wouldnt like it by sure.