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Old 17-02-2016, 12:35   #1
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Random act of kindness day

This I've heard on a media source. So if you know someone that is leaving your location, jump in and clean their prop and rudder for a parting well made.
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Maybe it's because I'm from Mass and we're kind of stand off'ish but if I see someone touching my boat without my permission or knowledge I'm punching first and asking questions later
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Kindness is contagious.
When you're willing to share your kindness, others will be inspired by your example and think about doing something as kind themselves.
For instance, this kindness costs you absolutely nothing!
For instance, you can sign up to become an organ donor. Then, when you die (we all do eventually), your organs can be used to save lives. One person’s organs can save up to 8 lives.
If you want to know more, the Mayo Clinic wrote an excellent article answering frequently asked questions about organ donation.
Organ donation: Don't let these myths confuse you - Mayo Clinic

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Old 17-02-2016, 13:58   #4
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Kindness is contagious.
When you're willing to share your kindness, others will be inspired by your example and think about doing something as kind themselves.
For instance, this kindness costs you absolutely nothing!
For instance, you can sign up to become an organ donor. Then, when you die (we all do eventually), your organs can be used to save lives. One person’s organs can save up to 8 lives.
If you want to know more, the Mayo Clinic wrote an excellent article answering frequently asked questions about organ donation.
Organ donation: Don't let these myths confuse you - Mayo Clinic

Ask first, question later.
Very good Sir, am am signed up..
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Maybe it's because I'm from Mass and we're kind of stand off'ish but if I see someone touching my boat without my permission or knowledge I'm punching first and asking questions later
I understand, that does explain Cruiser's opinions of sailors from Mass. I will "log" that.
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Maybe it's because I'm from Mass and we're kind of stand off'ish but if I see someone touching my boat without my permission or knowledge I'm punching first and asking questions later
Nonetheless, not all acts of kindness are "intrusive".
Would you hold a door open for the elderly/infirm?
That would be a small act of kindness.
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It's not because you are from Massachusetts, its because you are an idiot. Turn 12 already.
Great way to lead by example. Is there a pot and kettle somewhere around here?
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Nonetheless, not all acts of kindness are "intrusive".
Would you hold a door open for the elderly/infirm?
That would be a small act of kindness.
Absolutely. In public I am the nicest person in the world. Even the give up my seat for an elderly person type of guy. But if I see someone potentially causing problems with my hard earned possessions I will think the worst until proven otherwise because I have seen more wrong doings then good in todays society where I live.
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Absolutely. In public I am the nicest person in the world. Even the give up my seat for an elderly person type of guy. But if I see someone potentially causing problems with my hard earned possessions I will think the worst until proven otherwise because I have seen more wrong doings then good in todays society where I live.

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You all act like if you walked out to your car and saw someone peering through your windows that you would assume they were cleaning your windows out of the goodness of their heart instead of thinking that they were casing your car to steal something.
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Maybe so but I doubt we would be..."punching first and asking questions later"
Paranoia will destroy ya.
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Maybe so but I doubt we would be..."punching first and asking questions later"
Paranoia will destroy ya.
But if they ARE actually out to get me, is it still paranoia?
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I'm actually close in mind with Mr Mass. Now, it would be completely different if someone approached me on the dock, or already in the water, and said "Hey, I'm cleaning props for anyone interested, free of charge today, would you be interested?". Yes, it takes a little surprise out of it since you'd be told it's happening beforehand, but I'm a lot more receptive to something like that, than to say sitting in the boat, hearing a thud underneath and seeing someone diving underneath and me with zero idea what they're up to. I'd rather know first, instead of having to guardedly question whomever it is that comes to the surface. So I might not PUNCH first, but personally I'd be in a less agitated state if I was just asked ahead of time.
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I'm actually close in mind with Mr Mass. Now, it would be completely different if someone approached me on the dock, or already in the water, and said "Hey, I'm cleaning props for anyone interested, free of charge today, would you be interested?". Yes, it takes a little surprise out of it since you'd be told it's happening beforehand, but I'm a lot more receptive to something like that, than to say sitting in the boat, hearing a thud underneath and seeing someone diving underneath and me with zero idea what they're up to. I'd rather know first, instead of having to guardedly question whomever it is that comes to the surface. So I might not PUNCH first, but personally I'd be in a less agitated state if I was just asked ahead of time.
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This I've heard on a media source. So if you know someone that is leaving your location, jump in and clean their prop and rudder for a parting well made.
My random act of kindness for you, is to advise you to never perform work on, or otherwise handle someone else's boat without their permission.
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