Schionning would be the first choice. They're gorgeous...
there's a guy on these fora with an Oram design
Barramundi ticks some of the boxes
ticks some of the boxes
Crowther ticks some of the boxes
Actually, there aren't many newer boats that will tick your boxes. Older models have more of the features you describe, odd as that might seem. With your budget you could get an older boat and modify to your liking
Performance in light airs depends on your ability to keep the boat light...
With pretty much any boat, you get any two of three things: cost - performance - comfort