Crew Wanted: Crusing Around the World.

[nezih]

Originally Posted by boatbunny

Oh,
and who is it that is offering the free candy?
Please send me a PM.

Hi to everybody ,

I see many attacks to me.

First, my english is not much as you have.

Im crusing about 12 years, last four years in Caribben. Next will be pasific

ocean

I dont have time to be an active member. I had membership before because of the check some imformation about Carribean. Bu know I forgot that user name and password.

I just wrote an advertising. I have enough experince about crews on the

boat.

Only the long term crusier can be helpful on boat.

They can keep the boat like their home.

Short term passengers, backbackers give more damage on the boat and

makes me tired.

Actually solo sailing is more comfortable. I know not easy to understand

eachother. in a narrow place.

Thats why Im writing serious . (creepy, as you said)

So, some of you is kidding. Its not nice.

İf you wonder, you can ask why.

Now Im fixing,renew my boat in Miami , and then heading to Bahamas,

Virgin islands South Caribbean. I have been visit most of Caribbean.

İf need any help or ask something you can contact me. by

nezihkilinckini@gmail.com.

Have fun to everybody.

[mstrebe]

Nezih, it's creepy because you specified female crew.

Why is the gender important to you? The answer everyone assumes, because it's most likely true, is that you intend to have a physical relationship with them.

Hiding that intent behind a seemingly benign request for crew is the definition of creepy.

Now, if there's some other reason why you specified female crew, for example, because you yourself are female and don't want to deal with gender dynamics, you should have stated that.

But, you are in fact male, because Nezih is a Turkic male name, and your post is very creepy.

[nezih]

Originally Posted by mstrebe

Nezih, it's creepy because you specified female crew.

Why is the gender important to you? The answer everyone assumes, because it's most likely true, is that you intend to have a physical relationship with them.

Hiding that intent behind a seemingly benign request for crew is the definition of creepy.

Now, if there's some other reason why you specified female crew, for example, because you yourself are female and don't want to deal with gender dynamics, you should have stated that.

But, you are in fact male, because Nezih is a Turkic male name, and your post is very creepy.

I told you I have enough exprience about crews.

JUst near future 2 captain sunk the boat on reefs at Belize. which is very nice boat and I found it in Güatemala for them.

You know 2 captain sinks the boats. I have many lived stories kind of this.

So I only take on board my close friends for short time.

Women sailors has more respects then men.

I never think a woman for housekeeping and cooking all my life.

Im also better at housekeeping and cooking. I dont wait these from anybody

If they want to have a long crusing they can be boatmate .

I met some of them was very nice companian.

Anyway . you dont have to think like me ;I dont have to think like you.

BUt I see you are not hospital.

İt is just an advertising. Not for your fun.

Women sailor is not stupid. If they interest they write and ask.

I dont have time to write you, answer you ; my darling engine is waiting

fixing for me to take me Bahamas.

You may enjoy between each others.


Have enjoy beetween eachother.

Chav

[boatbunny]

Hi Nezih

I know you dont have the free candy... nor are you departing from where I am looking to sail from.

I suspected that you might have just been out sailing, and not cruising online.

It can be difficult to understand the sense of humor of people who have mastery over a language that you are only just learning, but I suspect they did not truly mean you any harm, and only wanted you to be clearer about your intentions.
However, that said, it is still not nice to have someones else's values forced down your throat whether they are on your native turf, or you on theirs.

happy sails,
Boatbunny

[boatman61]

Originally Posted by mstrebe

Nezih, it's creepy because you specified female crew.

Why is the gender important to you? The answer everyone assumes, because it's most likely true, is that you intend to have a physical relationship with them.

Hiding that intent behind a seemingly benign request for crew is the definition of creepy.

Now, if there's some other reason why you specified female crew, for example, because you yourself are female and don't want to deal with gender dynamics, you should have stated that.

But, you are in fact male, because Nezih is a Turkic male name, and your post is very creepy.

Actually I.. like Nezih prefer to sail with females..
Not because they can cook and clean etc.. I am pretty good at both myself.. in fact I am not that keen on other folk messing about in my galley.. why do folk always come on board then re-arrange my stuff to suit them.. how rude is that!!
As for wanting to get my leg over.. never been desperate enough to have to advertise.. (low sex drive)
Its just that guys always want to be competitive.. fly more canvas than needed.. tell me how I should be doing this or that..
So... guess I come under your definition of..
'Creepy Guy..!! he don't want sex..'

[HappyMdRSailor]

I like Nehzih too....

Straight to the point....

1. You like sail?
2. You female?
3. You not backpacking bum?

= We go now....

Good luck buddy!

[NorthernSeaWolf]

Originally Posted by nezih

Thats why Im writing serious . (creepy, as you said)

Hi Nezih,

We understand English isn't your first language, and we're not making fun. You speak more English than I speak Turkish!

Your initial post was creepy, meaning it would make most if not all women uncomfortable, (not that we took it as serious) for the reasons I stated:
- there was no boat information
- there was no travel information
- you didn't state why you were looking for female crew
- there was no Nezih information!

Even if you linked to some of your other pages, people could get a better feel for the situation.

Good luck!