Search for 1st mate keeper

[johnnyforu]

Lol and thanks for all the insight...
Have learned too it's like my flagpole work. If I didn't put it out there.... Miss the opportunity to at bid....
www.com stuff, articles covering the service, word of mouth..... YouTube, all but face book... Wanted the work, never desperate for it and fast to turn it down.... If I don't find the keeper mate... Very ok solo! Bar set high and great to get CF input! Lol stuff to the real!!!! Funny stuff as to mate keepers! No chain for the one I'm looking for and will share the adventure!!!!!

[jreiter190]

Call Midnight Lace Escort Service in Las Vegas, 555 buy the hour. Good Luck

[UNCIVILIZED]

Johnny, I'm kind of in the same boat as you, no pun intended. And in my mind, one of the key things (for me) is getting back into racing. As there are a LOT of female sailors in that community. Which was a nice place to go "shopping" as it were.

Also, you're looking for free spirits, typically. Gals who aren't overly concerned with convention, aka a keeping up with the jones's lifestyle. I think Jamws Wharram had the corner on the market on that one!
Plus gals who are used to thinking, & or living "outside of the box" are going to more easily adapt to the sailing lifestyle, & likely deal better with some of the amenities of living on land which it lacks. But are more than made up for, by the unique rewards which it has to offer.

And I have no idea how well it works, but there's a site called FitnessSingles. Where folks list their primary fitness activities, sailing being one of them. Can't imagine it'd hurt to try it, knock on wood.
There are also plenty of other social networking sites as well, many of them targeted towards various activities. Sailing being one of them.

[TeddyDiver]

Smile, listen and agree with them. No need for you to search, The other gender is searching also so lett someone choose you. Worked for me so far..

BR Teddy

[LLCoolDave]

It is easier to find a mate online the younger you are. There are a few free dating sites but over 40yo it is slim pickings just because younger people accept it as a way to meet a partner. I am in a similar boat, pardon the pun, in that I want to work on my sailing skills for the next year meet a pretty lady and buy a boat, then island hop the pacific. I wonder if it is better or worse to lay all your cards on the table. My personal ad would go something like this. My screen name is meant to be ironic by the way.

Hey ladies, I'm 33yo and I have a passion for long term sailing. If you don't know how to sail that is ok. Let's try it out together. Let's date for a year and sail together. I have a paid for boat and we split expenses if we do some long term cruising. It might cost us $12,000 per year. I'm a frugal sailor, just imagine some tropical island hopping for $6k per year! You can't live on land for that price and you just might find the love of your life and a passion for the sea.

That's what is in my mind. The problem is the women who respond are just as crazy as we are. There are at least a few women who would take you up on cruising for $6k per year. That is my budget. Make sure you date for a year to really know each other and do some coastal cruising. I am frugal while on land so I will be frugal at sea. I even have a marina picked out in Thailand that charges $6 per month for a slip, that is based of the advertised internet price. Things could be different in real life but hell, have an adventure and find out.

[UNCIVILIZED]

Originally Posted by TeddyDiver

Smile, listen and agree with them. No need for you to search, The other gender is searching also so lett someone choose you. Worked for me so far..

BR Teddy

So what you're saying, to borrow a theme from the movie "Chill Factor"; is, to create a "piece of bait" (you) so perfect, that your target is overwhelmed by it's pre-progammed genetic code, to take the bait.

[Fishbreath]

After being with the same woman for over twenty years..
I enjoyong not having a woman in my life..
It's just so easy.. No arguing .. No lifting dirty toilet seat drama...
No listening to bad music or watching "chick flicks"..

[tchavei]

Originally Posted by UNCIVILIZED

So what you're saying, to borrow a theme from the movie "Chill Factor"; is, to create a "piece of bait" (you) so perfect, that your target is overwhelmed by it's pre-progammed genetic code, to take the bait.

That basically sums it up. A Mercedes key chain with a Mercedes to back up helps though [emoji14]

Originally Posted by Fishbreath

After being with the same woman for over twenty years..
I enjoyong not having a woman in my life..
It's just so easy.. No arguing .. No lifting dirty toilet seat drama...
No listening to bad music or watching "chick flicks"..

We all have days like that [emoji14]

Regards
Tony

Sent from my keyboard through my phone or something like that.

[jreiter190]

Just remember boys. It's Ladies Choice. Catch a woman with bait and suffer the consequences. If a woman is interested in you, she'll find a way to let you know. Then you'll stand a chance to find happiness.

[Tingum]

I caught mine on Daytona Beach 40 years ago, used a Hobie Cat for bait!

[HappyMdRSailor]

Originally Posted by tbodine88

Where do you want your first mate kept? I keep mine in the house. She stays there unless she needs to run errands, go to work etc.

Funny Tom!

Originally Posted by Tayana42

3/8" chain and don't forget to mouse the shackles.


S/V B'Shert

HAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!!

[zeehag]

if you do not merely seek crew or dating service, there is ssssm social group here in cf. request membership, make sure i can easily find your marital status, and we go from there.instructions are in the social group page.
ifyou merely seek crew or dating service, those ar ealso available,altho via different groups.

[weavis]

This might work:

[tchavei]

Originally Posted by zeehag

if you do not merely seek crew or dating service, there is ssssm social group here in cf. request membership, make sure i can easily find your marital status, and we go from there.instructions are in the social group page.
ifyou merely seek crew or dating service, those ar ealso available,altho via different groups.

There is a group on cf for dating services? Really?

Regards
Tony

Sent from my keyboard through my phone or something like that.

[NorthernSeaWolf]

Well there's your problem - you live in Florida!



...geographics is probably my problem now that I think about it